Not every guy has to be a casanova to get the girl of your dreams. Understanding women may be difficult (dear men, we know) but it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to tell you how to treat them well. Here are some tips that every self-made gentleman should know when wooing that special someone.
Take her to work (along with her favourite drink)
Waking up early for a long commute to work is often not the most delightful part of the day. Be there with her and bring along her favourite Drink, or pack her a healthy Lunch. Your presence and efforts will be felt and appreciated!
Shower her with compliments
A simple “you look great today!” can help brighten her day. Having mood lifting conversations make her remember you fondly, often leaving a more lasting impression. But remember: too much of anything is never good, so refrain from giving too many compliments or she might start to think that your words are less than sincere.
Spontaneity is sexy
Sometimes being less prepared can turn out to be the best decision ever. Be spontaneous and do things just for the fun of it! Whip up breakfast with whatever you have in the fridge and bring it to her; book a surprise weekend trip to a nearby city or arrange a surprise dinner at a random restaurant neither of you have tried. In short, be open to new experiences! There is much to do, but don’t reveal all your cards at the get-go — keep her guessing!
Listen to details and remember it
Women talk three times more than men, which means they can chalk up to 20,000 words a day. If you aim to impress, then simply listening to what she says isn’t as important as remembering what she said. After you’ve pleased her with that, keep the ball rolling by surprising her with thoughtful gifts related to what she’s casually mentioned. If she likes to cook, buy her a Stylish Thermal Cooker. If she likes the smell of flowers, present her with a bouquet of roses. It really doesn’t take much!
Be there when she’s sick
When a person is sick, they’ll need plenty of rest and nourishment. That is why making something nutritious will benefit her tremendously… and also show her you care. Be it chicken soup, garlic and kale soup or cream of tomato soup, pack it in a nifty Food Jar to keep warm until you arrive at her place. Even if you can’t be there physically, a quick text that says ‘hope you feel better soon’ will make her day, because sometimes, it’s the small things that make all the difference.
